analyze this.

I feel like shit.

Scenario:

Girl comes home to boy. Chats as normal, lovey-dovey, I love you. Boy is sick, hawks up random phlegm-balls every so often. Still stays up to chat with girl, but goes to bed early. Girl stays up another half hour, then goes to bed. Boy won't talk to girl the next day. Girl scratches head, wondering what she's done. Girl finds out at two a.m. the next morning that boy wanted her to come to bed and cuddle. Boy didn't say anything that night, no "Come to bed, baby," or name-calls or anything. Apparently boy has told girl that he wants to cuddle several nights brfore. Girl doesn't remember this and is made to feel like shit. Girl continues to get the cold shoulder the next day, during which girl says "I love you" and maked homemade burritos and brings them to his work and says I'm sorry and everything. Boy says "Don't be sorry, it's not important. You didn't do anything," to which girl thinks she obviously did and is an insensitive bitch or something. Boy says nothing outside job or home is important, therefore, that must not be important. Girl calls bullshit, to which boy says it's all his fault. Then he proceeds to say "I'll talk to you in a couple of weeks,"then hangs up. Not an 'I love you' from Saturday to Monday morning. But this is not important, apparently, and he's, as he says, "making a big deal out of nothing."

Huh? This behavior is more common than you think, and I have no idea as to how to deal with it, making me not just an insensitive bitch, but a confused and frustrated one. I'm sure it might be a little more typical if 'girl' and 'boy' were reversed. I just don't know how to figure this one out. My first impulse is to cry, and then to throw things. Neither of which will solve anything at all.

Sometimes I really don't understand how normal people are supposed to work...